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Lauren's avatar

Just a fellow parent (to twin daughters) here, standing behind a tree that is too small to hide me, feeling all of this so very much.

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DKL's avatar

I have two children, raised the same way, who turned out very differently in appearance and very similar in values and critical thinking. We stressed curiosity, love of learning, wear whatever you want from your drawers. Both had yellow and green onesies, any "gender" diapers, homemade/used Halloween costumes and store bought characters (any gender). They always picked Barbie dolls at the thrift stores and then brought them home and gave them punk haircuts and painted them with nail polish (all over!). Both, as young adults, now play with gender, despite their identity differences - one is heterosexual, cisgender and the other lesbian, gender nonconforming. I say, when they are little, bring it all home, see what they choose and let them experiment. Provide praise for creativity and experimentation. Peggy Orenstein binary be damned... My two cents. -- Old Mom down the street

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