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Paul Silin Levenson's avatar

Sarah, again a funny, painfully sad and redeeming piece of writing - a wonderful poem at the end. Lovely Kim Taylor coda.

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Matthew Soares's avatar

Sending you love.

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Sarah Wheeler's avatar

Thank you Soares! Miss you.

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Leslie's avatar

So thoughtful .... I always feel like these essays are a conversation with you. I laugh and cry in most episodes. Of course, we all want belonging and significance... whose "job" is that when we are adults? Sometimes we act (or I should say "I" the way you do!) like it's someone else's job. ..but it's not.

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Sarah Wheeler's avatar

oh jeez Leslie, dont get me started on giving ourselves the feeling of belonging and significance...that is something I am not adept at!

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Courtney Martin's avatar

This is just so beautiful. Every word. How is it possible we describe so many vastly different ways of being human together parenting?

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Garrett Bucks's avatar

Love you, Wheeler.

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Sara NK's avatar

My heart. All of it.

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