Love this. So wise. I think where I get stuck is the relationship between loving what is and giving them the bumpers they sometimes crave between what is and the world. If that makes any sense.
Yes! Our role is certainly to teach and guide and give feedback and set limits and, for example, explain that throwing shovels at people is NOT OKAY. And with some kids, some of the time, we are going to have to manage a lot more of that conversation than with others. I like the idea of 'bumpers.'
where was your newletter when I needed it 50 years ago? Gordon W, Phd
Beautiful !!!! I am new to your list and a child psychiatrist who wrote the Behavior Code. You nailed it love and acceptance for who our kids are.
What if it just....is.
Love this. So wise. I think where I get stuck is the relationship between loving what is and giving them the bumpers they sometimes crave between what is and the world. If that makes any sense.
Yes! Our role is certainly to teach and guide and give feedback and set limits and, for example, explain that throwing shovels at people is NOT OKAY. And with some kids, some of the time, we are going to have to manage a lot more of that conversation than with others. I like the idea of 'bumpers.'
Beautifully written, my friend. Funny and smart and true.
Knocked it out of the park again, Sarah. This one hit me in my heart!