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Unrestricted Interest's avatar

Saving Chewy for the end. That's an inspired rim shot.

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Sarah Wheeler's avatar

Thanks Chris. I have been told I am the Andrew Bogut of child psychology...

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Patricia Papernow's avatar

As always, there are so many parts of this I love. My favorite in this one might be, "Yes, you can apply my very best lipstick to your butt. Yes, you can open up every puzzle box and slowly slide mixed-up pieces into my bra as we watch the music video for Draft Punk’s “Around the World” on repeat." And "say yes with joy."

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Sarah Wheeler's avatar

Thanks Patricia :)

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Kate Sherwood's avatar

Such a great newsletter”episode”( what is it called??) to re read today

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Sarah Wheeler's avatar

Thanks Kate! It's definitely called an episode.

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elissa moriarty's avatar

Love the VEEP reference. Especially because my sister's use of "It's not the plan" drives me up the wall! And I have to say, with all the "no's" saying yes really does bring joy these days. :)

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Ben Wheeler's avatar

I so appreciate this. I do so much managing of my kids, and managing of my parenting -- and I am not a fan of advice that acts like there are easy answers! That said, I do appreciate tips and tools, and "say yes with joy" is actually very helpful.

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Sarah Wheeler's avatar

it's such a balance right? I usually just cover my ears and go "la la la la" when anyone tries to give me parenting advice but then most of the time there's something I begrudgingly use :)

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